Belfast, here we come!

Yippee! Mistress Chloe and I will be in Belfast from Saturday 17th July through to Tuesday 20th July. We will have all our dungeon kit with us (maybe excluding the throne!) and cannot wait to get up to no good!

If you’d like to come and entertain us, get in touch HERE

Doubles day with Little Rabbit

Femsub extraordinaire Little Rabbit will be joining me for a day of fun in Hampshire on Friday 23rd July.

If you would like to join her in submitting to me, get in touch by filling out the session request form HERE or by direct email if you have visited me before.

We look forward to a day of fun and naughtiness!

Belfast sessions: register your interest here!

Chloe and I have some boys to visit in Belfast, and are planning a trip there later this Summer. If you’d like to serve one or both of us during our visit, please register your interest here:

Greetings from Lockdown

Locked Down

Hello, I hope you’re safe and well.

It’s been a while since I’ve had time to write a blog, so I thought I’d let you know what I’ve been up to in Lockdown so far.

As many of you know I’m about to graduate, and my main effort over recent weeks has been finishing off my research study which examines the psychology of British BDSM participants. I’m literally going to have a degree in BDSM! A huge thank you to everyone that took part. I couldn’t have done this without your help and I’ve found it immensely interesting to read your responses.

I’m also hitting the gym HARD, having finally come to the end of more than a year of various procedures to fix my left leg, which was a victim of far too many heavy headscissoring sessions over the last 20 years! I’m glad to say that the surgery has been a success and I’ve now built my fitness back up to previous levels… However, headscissoring sessions will sadly have to be a thing of the past. Luckily there are hundreds of clips of me in brutal headscissoring action here for you to reminisce with, and I have a few “new” clips from the Whiplash Towers archives to release over the coming months too.

…Which brings me to another exciting thing I’ve been doing in lockdown! I have finally had time to go through my server and video archives and catalogue all my content. I’ve found some real gems which have never seen the light of day before, including unseen ballbusting footage of Belle, Claire and Rebekah, the aforementioned headscissoring footage of me, and lots of other tasty treats besides. It’s amazing what an enforced lockdown can do for your organisational skills! I’ll be releasing the clips over the coming weeks, as and when I get time to edit them.

I’ve also been spending a lot of time keeping up with my subs, sissies, sluts and slaves during lockdown. There’s no reason that they can’t continue to amuse me – even while we can’t see each other in person! Modern technology means I can continue to control them from afar and keep a watchful eye on them. App controlled chastity and butt plugs have really come into their own! My boys (and girls) have been doing a great job keeping me amused, and also assisting me in practical ways. Thank you – you’re awesome!

Finally, I’ve also been taking a more active role in online domination, using my dedicated phone line at Dommeline and webcam at Adultwork. As well as giving me an outlet for all my sadistic urges right now, I’ve had lots of fun just chatting to my guests, and have made some great new friends as well as reconnecting with some blasts from the past! I’ll be on my phone line and webcam at least a couple of times a week for the foreseeable future, so please do drop by and say hello! I’ll make sure I give notice on my Twitter feed as to when I’ll be available, and will also publish my weekly availability on my calendar at mistresswhiplash.co.uk

Keep safe!

Nikki

P.S. Obviously, my trip to Australia and New Zealand is on ice for the foreseeable future, but I will be doing my very best to get there as soon as I possibly can!

New double dates with Mistress Athena and little rabbit

Some exciting new dates for the diary have been added to my sessions site MistressWhiplash.co.uk

The amazing Mistress Athena is coming back on 17th October for another day of sadistic pleasure – we will be accepting bookings for both private sessions and filming this time. Spaces are already limited, so register your interest quickly if you would like to be considered.

Mistress Athena visits Whiplash Towers again on 17th October 2019.

I’m delighted that femsub extraordinaire little rabbit is going to be paying a visit to Whiplash Towers in early November. If you would like to join with her in serving my every cruel whim, please apply via MistressWhiplash.co.uk

Femsub little rabbit joins me in my dungeon for the first time on 2nd November 2019

As you may be aware, I am closing my applications to new visitors again as of this month, but never fear! Applications from those newcomers wishing to visit on either of these special double session dates are still welcome.

Extreme Restraints Black Magic XL Fucking Machine for sale!

Black Magic Fucking Machine

I am rehoming my Extreme Restraints Black Magic XL fucking machine. This is a really versatile bit of kit which can be angled in any direction, meaning it fucks upwards, downwards, sideways and anywhere else besides! It has adjustable depth and speed and can do anything from 1 to 240 strokes per minute.

This fucking machine is specifically for use with UK voltage (doesn’t require a voltage converter) and comes with a vac-u-lock adapter – further adapters can be purchased for £50 from the link below.

Retail price for these machines is currently £1070 – see https://www.extremerestraints.com/black-magic.html for full details – I am selling this one for £650 as it is several years old and has a couple of very minor scratches to the powder coating (see photos at the bottom of this post).

Buyer to collect from Alton, Hampshire, or a courier can be arranged at the buyer’s expense. If you’d like to offer my fucking machine a loving new home, please reply to this post or contact me via mistresswhiplash.com

Seeing new subs again from the end of May

Starting from 27th May 2019 I will have time to see a select few more subs again, so I shall be opening my session applications back up.

As my time remains limited, requests will not be responded to if they:

  • aren’t detailed enough about your interests for me to decide whether we are a good match
  • read as though they have been cut and pasted to every Dominatrix in the country
  • don’t give me an idea of your available dates or travel arrangements (particularly if you are contacting me from outside of the UK)
  • demonstrate in any way that you haven’t read my session information and FAQs (e.g. by listing session interests which I have stated I don’t participate in under any circumstances – smoking fetishists, I’m looking at YOU!)
  • contain attempts to haggle over session tributes (these are clearly stated in my FAQs and are non-negotiable – if you can’t afford to visit me, please wait until you can before you get in touch)
  • in any other way make me not want to reply/see you (i.e. rudeness, unsafe activity requests, previous bad form)

You can apply for a session with me at http://mistresswhiplash.co.uk

I look forward to meeting some of you in my dungeon over the coming months!

New Double Domination dates added!

I’ve added some new double femdom session/filming dates for the next couple of months on the diary page over at www.mistresswhiplash.co.uk

Visiting me in the next 2 months or so are:

Mistress Chloe

Mistress Tiffany Naylor

Fetish Nikki

The Hunteress

You can find all the details of how to book on my sessions site now!

Busy Mistress!

Please note that I am not accepting one-to-one private session requests from new visitors at the moment. This is to allow me to devote my time to my wonderful stable of loyal subs/sluts/sissies and slaves. My session request form remains open here but should only be used by those who have already visited me to book their return visits.

Please check back later – I anticipate I will have more time free around Summer 2019 and, if so, may reopen my session applications process to new visitors then. In the meantime, I will be continuing to shoot new content, so you can get your Nikki fix by joining my members’ website MistressWhiplash.com or by downloading clips from my Clips4Sale store.

Thanks!

Here’s another image of me by Ariel Belle – you can see more of her outstanding art here

Deposits/booking payments

As anyone who has ever visited me, contacted me about a possible visit, or read through my sessions website thoroughly will know, I always ask for an advance payment to be made before I will book you into my session diary. When you make this payment it tells me a couple of things:

  1. You have a genuine intention to visit me and are not simply fantasising about it and wasting my time (or, if you are, you’re paying me something for my time participating in your fantasy email chain, which means I don’t mind!)
  2. You trust me enough to part with a reasonable amount of money in advance of our meeting. This is really very important to me as, if you cannot trust me with your £100, what on Earth are you doing trusting me with your balls, or arse, or nipples?!

For first time visitors (who haven’t previously blotted their copybook – I’ll come back to those chaps later) the requested payment is usually somewhere between 25-50% of the total tribute for the session duration you are requesting. It probably goes without saying (but occasionally there seems to be some confusion, so I’m saying it again anyway!) that I retain this payment in the event of you cancelling/rescheduling your session at short notice, or simply not showing up at the agreed time. Much to the vexation of some, I am a professional Dominatrix and am running a business, therefore somebody who has booked to spend an afternoon with me and then doesn’t show up not only puts a dent in my income but also clogs up a significant amount of my (rather limited) session time for that week, which I could have spent seeing somebody else. “Why don’t you just take a last minute booking when someone cancels on you”, I hear you cry! Possibly this would be an option if I was based in a major city, but – weirdly – we don’t get much passing Femdom kinkster footfall in rural Hampshire. Most of my regular subs hail from great distances and have to make a big effort to visit and serve (thank you!) and can’t just be here in five minutes, at a moment’s notice. Given that most people would need to book a day off work in order to make their pilgrimage, at least a week’s notice is usually needed for me to be able to book somebody else in to visit me in a cancelled spot. Not to mention the effort/time I would need to spend actively trying to fill the spot. This means that usually they go unfilled.

If you have blotted your copybook with a previous cancellation or no-show, you will find that I am usually completely happy to reschedule, but  that I request that you pay the full session tribute in advance – before I will agree to book you back into my diary. As before, this payment is non-refundable in the event of you failing to show up for your session or cancelling at short notice. That’s right – the ante has been upped! This, again, is for a couple of reasons:

  1. I know you told me that you had a really good reason for cancelling last time, and you couldn’t possibly have made it to see me (or, maybe even emailed to let me know) under the circumstances, but there is a small chance that your cancellation or no-show was for one of the slightly more common reasons (e.g. a “what the fuck am I doing?! She’s clearly involved in a dark criminal underworld and I’m going to get hurt for real” moment; or the fact that you were so excited on the morning of your scheduled visit that you wanked yourself silly and had to go for a little lie down instead; or you never intended to go through with it in the first place and just wanted some horny email banter with a Dominatrix) and it’s pretty hard for me to tell the difference between a genuine reason and a made up one. I hear a lot of excuses, some of which I will tell you about in a moment. The fact is, I want to give you as many reasons to go through with your session with me as possible, and if nerves/over-excitement were at the root of your not showing up, I want to get you through it so that you, too, can experience the warm glow of achievement which only comes from being the recipient of a pair of utterly mashed up nipples and a tattered bumhole (I wonder, has that put your mind at rest?)
  2. Trust, again. In both directions. This time mainly just retaining mine… If you genuinely couldn’t make it for a good reason the first time, you will understand that you have inconvenienced me, and that you need to show me that you value my time, proving that you’re a trustworthy person and one that I might want to make an effort to spend time with again in the future.

And now, I’d like to talk about excuses, for those (thankfully few) of you who feel the need to make up corkers… So, let’s say you’re Mr. Nervous and you spent the night before your planned session in a cold sweat, worrying about all the things which could happen to you, or you’re the aforementioned chap with the raw cock who now can’t stomach the idea of putting it into the hands of a cruel Dominatrix after all and is feeling too chilled out and sleepy to make the trip. You ask yourself whether you can just tell me you were too nervous/spent? No, you reason, it doesn’t seem like a good enough excuse for standing me up, I’ll probably think you’re a twat and blacklist you. I might refuse to see you in future, or threaten to expose you on social media, or decide to turn up at your house, cling to the underside of your car as you flee town, then wait for you on a boat you’ve rented and conduct a mock trial to get you to admit the real reason why you didn’t come to see me… Who knows what irritated Dominatrixes are capable of?! So you’d better think up the most heinous tale of death and/or destruction and/or woe that you possibly can because, you think, I will definitely not have heard an excuse that heinous/outlandish before and won’t think for a moment that someone could make up such a dreadful tale… But, trust me, whatever horrible tale you come up with, someone else will already have come up with similar, or way better/worse, depending on your viewpoint. I’ve been given excuses which made me laugh out loud, or made me want to cry for the person who stooped so low as to give me them, and everything in between. I’d very much prefer it if you could just tell me the truth, please (or just don’t give me an excuse at all), as it gets tiresome writing responses such as:

Hi Frank

I’m very sorry to hear that your car was swallowed up by a sink-hole which opened up without warning on the A421 last week. You have my sympathy. Thank you for spending five days clawing your way back to the surface with fractures to every bone in your body in order to let me know why you didn’t turn up for your session on Friday. It’s quite a testament to modern technology that you were able to get perfect 4G signal whilst buried alive and hence were able to continue to tweet me hundreds of times a day about how excited you were to be visiting me in the days leading up to the session you didn’t show up to because you had been swallowed up into the Bowels of the Earth.

It sounds like you’ve made a very speedy recovery (and with not a mark on you despite all of those fractures, I’ll warrant!) and yes we can definitely reschedule for this week instead. Please make the bank transfer of £xxx at your earliest convenience in order to reserve the space in my diary. You will note I have asked you for the full session tribute this time – this is my usual protocol for slaves who are engulfed by sinkholes in the Bedfordshire area and will, of course, be non-refundable in the event of any natural disasters which may impact upon your future visit.

Kind regards

Nikki

I’m exaggerating, right? Well, not much at all actually. If I was to believe all of the cancellation excuses I receive, I would definitely think that visits to my little corner of Hampshire were jinxed in some manner, what with all the crashes, broken limbs, deaths of loved ones and comas they seem to trigger. Gladly, I don’t believe the half of them, and I’ve compared notes with some of my Dominatrix friends who report strikingly similar excuses coming from their guests too.

So, here’s a suggestion for the subs who bottle it or just don’t fancy it on the day: tell the truth! I don’t mind! It happens. If you don’t fancy it, that’s cool, everyone’s drive for kink ebbs and flows and what seemed like a good idea a month ago when you booked might just seem like too much today. If you get so nervous you don’t make it to see me (whether you make it as far as out of bed, to the car, to the end of my road, to my door) and would like to get further next time, tell me the truth and I can probably help. The main thing to know is I won’t be angry at you no matter what, and that’s because you will have at the very least paid me what I deem to be a reasonable tribute to cover my wasted time, or if it’s a repeat issue you will have paid me in full for my time. Or, if you really feel the need to make up an excuse, be creative and lighthearted! Make me want to laugh with you, not cry for you, please.

My few words seem to have morphed into 1700 – oops! Never mind. You get the point. Or you’ve fallen asleep. Anyway, here’s a pretty picture of me made by the sensationally talented artist Ariel Belle. It’s got nothing to do with the subject, but I get more engagements with my blog posts when I post a picture with them 🙂